ASKING For HELP Does Not Mean The End Of Your World

man this is moments before a phone call that I'm going to make that's very important and it's just really to ask for help you know I feel I need to record this video because I know it's hard to ask for help I know it's hard to open up and be vulnerable about a situation in your life that is the reality of what you're experiencing it's just real you're going through through it and you've tried so hard you've pushed and you feel like dang this is the end of what I'm capable of doing I need more resources I need more help and sometimes it's like we're so strong some of us

are so strong or have had to be so strong or too strong that when it comes time to need and the help you'll never ask you never ask when I understand and I get it because I'm the same way I'm the same way if I can do everything in my power and do it myself even if I got a crawl and it's painful and it's difficult but I can do it myself without asking for help I'm going to see if I can do that but what I'm realizing it comes a point where you've tried all that you can and you need some support and it reminds me that we're not

here by ourselves we're not not here by ourselves think about the the book of Acts and how the church talks about how they shared all their resources somebody didn't have something somebody else would give up what they had and give it to the next person that was in need and it reminds me of how you may not have have a resource but somebody else has it and you may have a resource you don't even need that you can give to somebody else so you may have something that you can offer to somebody else but also somebody has something that they can offer you if you will reach out and ask

for the help somebody wants to serve you somebody wants to take care of you somebody wants to utilize what they have to give to you to provide for you somebody somebody wants to help you out and I know as a leader that you are who you're probably helping so many other people you may not feel like there's anybody that wants to help you you you may not feel like there anybody that would help you without a catch you know I bumped into so many people within these this year alone who helped me in ways that I didn't think was fair cuz I couldn't pay them back for how they helped

me I couldn't pay them back I've had individuals just dropped 500 in my account on multiple occasions I've had an individual a church member just tell me that the Lord the Lord wants him to give me this 2,000 he was going to give me just 1,000 I didn't even ask for it but the Lord revealed to him hey I want to bless you with this 2,000 a double portion that was such a blessing and then to think that God was done no God wasn't even done after that he wasn't done he would do it again in a few months months later there will be a night where I'm literally praying

to God and I'm talking to the Lord I'm talking to the Lord at a park and I'm at this park and I'm just praying to the Lord for finances provision that same night he had me call back a friend that called me and just to let him know like hey just pray for me that's all I asked him to do just pray for me things would be right just pray for me I get I get off the phone and the moment I get off the phone the Lord blesses me that individual randomly drops 500 I never asked for money but drops 500 in my bank account then the thing that

God was done that very next day a individual that I only seen two times in my life the first time was cuz I was doing deliveries and so I met him got a chance to fellowship with him pray for him he lives out here in a he lives out here in Austin um it's a barber shop a barber I met him the second time and he told me specifically after I shared my story with him that the Lord said feed my my sheep and he proceeds to hand me out of the back of his car over $2,000 that I did not want to accept but he said the Lord said

give this to you the Lord I didn't have to work for I didn't have to do anything for I didn't feel like I deserved it matter of fact the god that gave it to me needed it more than me but God blessed me he blessed me with me and my family with this and he only blessed me to after once again I opened up in vulnerability but the individual that blessed me opened up in vulnerability as well too we both got to Fellowship and I gave him something he said I gave him something I didn't know I gave him anything but I gave him a word I gave him a

prayer I gave him encouragement something he needed the resources were nothing for him and so I say this because I'm recording this message because I know it's hard to ask for the help and really I'm saying I know it's hard to be open I know it's hard to be vulnerable because you're a leader who wants to continuously Excel and you don't want to show show weaknesses you showing weakness in the past and you seen where it's got you and you feel like this season if I if I show any type of vulnerability at the height of where I'm at then who's going to come who's going to take me seriously

I'm supposed to be somebody that's always got everything together this season I got all the money I got all the the the the confidence you know what I mean you got the opportunities you got everything you need you feel like there should be nothing wrong you should never have to ask for help but that's the humbling nature God always wants us to be in a place where we are we don't stop coming to him for the help we don't stop praying to him ABA father help me God wants that connection with his children so you may feel like dang that's probably why there's always a missing Gap God is going

to fill that Gap but there's always going to be something where you may have to be open to somebody you may have to be vulnerable and it's okay it takes so much to do it like right now I have to do that this is not some sugarcoat video I've been showing yall the journey since I've started the YouTube platform of things and and some things are the hardest thing for me to post and talk about and I'm like Lord I don't want to speak I don't want to be open about that I want to be vulnerable at that especially during the time where I started to share about pornography God

would reveal to me hey be open be vulnerable so many people reached out to me CU they wanted the same type of help they wanted a push and it's cuz I was open because I was vulnerable so I'm sharing this cuz I didn't want to share this video all right but I'm telling you all how to deal with this is keep praying keep praying that God gives you the strength I've been reading my word today and I've been praying and I went for a walk as I'm out here I'm just thankful to to God for the opportunity to be humble enough to then be bold enough to ask for the

help that I need from people that I love and that care and that want to support me that want to help me out think often times we have help in our life we got so many people that want to be there for us and help us but we don't ever ask for it we don't know how to ask for it so I just pray that God shows us more how to ask for the help we need I pray God shows us more that's not the end of the world when you have to ask for help it's not the end of the world matter of fact you may a be asking

for help because you're at a new beginning and you ain't never been at this level before so now that you're at this new level this new challenge you need wisdom you need to understand how to maneuver you need a resource you need a connection you need favor you need opportunity you need guidance and so asking for help is absolutely appropriate the Bible says ask God in James and God gives to all liberally without reproach so my leaders it's not the end of the world if you have to ask for help I love you go ask for the help that you need and I'm a firm believer that your life will

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